Happy Father’s day!

Happy fathers day everyone! It is a day that I am reminded to be thankful. Thankful for my dad ànd my mom. Because I have parents who support me, love me and cherish me, I am also reminded that there are many children out there that are alone. No dad, no moms who are also […]

Our Pride Month

It’s June! It’s Pride month. I am currently way behind on blogging. I am way behind in every aspect of my life. I lost my inspiration these last few weeks, but even without proper inspiration, I felt it is necessary for me to address pride month.  Let me be honest here, I adore everything and […]

Labels are the opposite of understanding!

I had an interesting conversation with a friend a few days ago which reminded me of some frustrating points in the current general opinion. In this day and age, sex seems to be very important for almost everyone, whether you are young, or old consciously or unconsciously most of us have strong opinions about sexuality. […]

Unnatural non-degradable chemical crap

For the month May, I have decided to participate in the may plastic-free challenge even though I refuse most single-use plastics in my daily life already. I’ll tell you why. I believe it is my obligation to leave this beautiful earth better than the way I found it and I will do everything I can to make […]

My savior

My savior

So, let’s talk Aki, my hero in so many ways. He saved my life in so many ways I thought it was time to share my love and appreciation for this incredible soul that I am blessed to share every aspect of my life with. About 5 years ago, I was in a dark place. I […]

Pain, the slain dragon (2)

A few weeks ago I faced my biggest challenge yet. The surgery that has changed my life in more ways than I could ever imagine. It was one hell of a fight; sometimes the pain would be so severe all I could feel was my mind entering this black hole. At that point, there was […]

Pain, the constant companion (1)

Pain is a strange thing. Sometimes welcome, sometimes unwelcome. Pain can be a friend and an enemy at the same time. After spending so much time with this enemy, it can become a safe haven. Sometimes you even look forward to this enemy’s personal brand of torture. Tomorrow after years of pain, physical pain, a […]

A peek behind the curtains…

People often have a misconception on why life in a wheelchair is so hard sometimes (read: most of the time). Usually, it’s not because being in a wheelchair is hard… 95% of the time it’s because of all the hassle we have to go through to have a fun and fulfilling life. Yesterday was a […]

When love leaves…

A few months ago I had the privilege to meet someone who made my heart beat faster from the moment he walked into the room. For a while, we “found a park bench that fit us perfectly.” We had fun, we learned from each other and thrived in each others company. When I met the guy in question, I […]

Decisions, decisions…

Voor Nederlands zie de vertaling onder aan de pagina. Today a question arose which has caused lots of issues in my life over the last few years. But before today I didn’t dare to face the problem in my life that is pointed out by the question. How is a person supposed to know what […]